@whysofurious welcome to fedi! The coffee (including decaf) is over there, soy and almond milk available. Sometimes people bring cookies, feel free to help yourself!
You'll find all sorts of people here. Some might seem weird initially; don't worry, they do not have bad intentions.
Still, if you feel some interactions are bringing you down, just mute them, and don't think twice about it. Nobody will hold this against you. Self-care is important. We're all here to have fun.
@rysiek Ahaha thanks! and thank you for the advices :) I totally agree about self-care and having fun, not doing so it would run such an amazing platform :)