i wish this article were true, i really do: https://kennydodrill.net/blog/how-to-be-a-nice-programmer/
i tried applying this attitude at twitter a decade ago when we were awash in wave after wave of xooglers, and all you really get for your kindness is to be treated as a rug.
it's important to be able to say NO (without malice) and immediately shut out anyone acting in bad faith
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