Having kids is this magical beautiful thing... but don't let anyone fool you into thinking it is _only_ that.
Having kids is the most difficult, stressful, panic attack-inducing thing I have ever done in my life.
A few days ago a coworker, a very nice man in his early 40's with 2 small kids, told me he missed my phone call because he was "literally curled up, crying on the floor".
If you're having a kid soon, prepare yourself. Chronic sleep deprivation and insane levels of stress will come.
@jon_valdes I have them both and still no kids. I'm afraid now.
@ekaitz_zarraga to be honest, a stress management course should be a mandatory thing, provided by the government to all expecting parents
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