We: Look these concerns about harassment!
You: That's not so important, no one gets harassed here
We: look here, and here. This stuff.
You: Nah that doesn't happen to us, can't reproduce.
We: We really don't like that this happens, and we've put a lot of emotional labour into this project, we want to make it work!
You: Did you add code? No? Fork it! Bye Felicia!
We: OK! We're Forking it!
You: OMG FORKING IS SO FUCKING HOSTILE HOW DARE YOU!?

#ForkOff / Forking is hostile Show more
@Miredly Yeah, I have had a lot of sympathy for Gargron a lot of times I mean that's why I was working with him. That's why I wanted to be that buffer.
That's why I offered to come back, and got hired back for a month.
He didn't need me, my feedback wasn't welcome anymore.
So.... I was like. Can I fork? No... That'd be too antagonistic.
I spent all day dealing with "cut him some slack" "Just fork off" "You haven't contributed go away", from other people.